When a couple splits up, the person who moves out has to find a new place to live. That can be pretty tough. But if you are the person left behind, you will have a different kind of problem to contend with. You will be left with all the energy imprints in the home of everything that happened there.
These imprints will be in the walls, the furniture, and especially in the bed you shared together. The history of good times and bad times will all be mingled in together, and if the relationship did not end well, there will be a layer of stress, arguments and unhappy times overlaying everything else. It’s very difficult to pick up and carry on living in such an environment, and there is also the problem that these imprints can cause history to repeat itself if you begin a new relationship while living in the same place.
The best solution when a relationship ends, is therefore for both partners to start a new life in a new home, but there are many situations when this is not possible – for example, if you have children, it can be very destabilizing for them to have to move and perhaps leave their school and their friends. It can also be just too expensive to even consider.
A good solution in this situation is a deep and thorough space clearing to clear out the frequencies of the old relationship and bring in new frequencies to help you build your life anew. Be sure to include bed thwacking too, to help to clear out the imprints from your mattress.
Full information about how to do a space clearing ceremony can be found in Part One of my book, Creating Sacred Space with Feng Shui.
It would be a good idea to also read Chapter 15 of Clear Your Clutter with Feng Shui which explains how to free yourself from negative or non-productive associations you may have with items in your home that are associated with the old relationship.
Copyright © Karen Kingston 2016