Dear Karen,

I had a question following the wonderful Space Clearing I had with you. Within a few days I received a phone call from my ex-boyfriend who I had not heard from in 7 months. The relationship was intense and ended on bad terms, ie. we didn't speak to each other since as he didn't want to see me.

I had buried him in my mind, yet just a few days after the Space Clearing he contacted me and has been very full-on, inviting me to dinner and wanting to take me out. I still haven't seen him as I am confused about what his intentions are, and this all happened nearly a month ago. He is still calling me, but I have a boyfriend overseas so I feel guilty if I go out with the ex.

I was just wondering why all of a sudden and at the same time as the Space Clearing, this happened? Could I have been having subconscious thoughts about him or comparing him to my current boyfriend, and so I manifested him to come back into my life? It is a compliment to have him contact me, but I don't want to get hurt again.

- M.T. (Australia)

Karen's reply:

You didn't mention this relationship to me during the consultation so it's not something I thought to tell you about then but I, and all the practitioners I have trained, often find that family and relationship reconciliations happen after a Space Clearing. I can remember several occasions when family members who have refused all contact for years suddenly phone up out of the blue even before the Space Clearing ceremony has finished, wanting to forgive and forget. The same thing happens with sour relationships. One couple I space cleared for hadn't had sex or intimacy in over a decade. After the Space Clearing they danced the evening away, spent a passionate night in bed and rediscovered their love for one another.

My explanation for why this happens is that the process of clearing out the old energies in a home creates a fresh start in every aspect of a person's life, including the relationships they are involved in.

However this is not to say it would be wise to become involved with this man again. It's enough that the bitter ending of the relationship has been healed. The Space Clearing ceremony will also have improved your relationship with your current boyfriend so my advice is to focus your attention on that.